Wednesday, November 03, 2004

The Day After

"Are you okay?" a well-meaning Republican friend asked me in a recent email.

I'm almost afraid to reply right now for fear of the pure unadulterated vitriol which would no doubt issue forth.

I am definitely NOT okay today.

I've been in tears of frustration and sadness off and on all day.
Even *Tom DeLay* won -- one of the most unabashed corrupt partisans in our government's history. And he won courtesy of his own malfeasance and deception. And no one can do a damn thing about it. The man should be *impeached*. And there is nothing we can do about it.

I really should stop.

I'm just so, so, so very hurt and angry and sad right now.

The feeling people like me get from those who voted for Bush, especially social conservatives who favor an authoritarian "strict father" form of leadership, is that this is "their" America, and in their opinion, those of us who want a "nurturing parent" government -- where tolerance and fairness, peace and diversity matter more than authority and strength and consistency-to- the-point-of-foolishness -- don't belong here and should move if we don't like having intrusive fear-based right-wing policy and religion shoved down our throats.

I've even gotten nudges like that from Republican family and friends at times, and it hurt. A lot.

Y'know, this is MY COUNTRY TOO. I love it and I AM a patriot and no one will ever tell me I am not. And I don't want to have to leave it just to get *basic* basic things like affordable health care, a clean environment, and a fiscally responsible government that doesn't practice corporate welfare in the form of HUGE tax cuts to big businesses and the wealthiest 1% of the population while throwing $300 'candy bar' refunds to the rest of us. Meanwhile college tuition goes up $5000, gas prices skyrocket, and health care costs soar (and benefits are cut).

Where is that $300 now, Republican friends?

What happened to the America we were raised in?

An America where *all* faiths (or no faith at
all!) were welcomed, respected, and protected, with not even so much as a hint of preference or favoritism given to one over the others.

What happened to the concept of American world leadership -- where we always took the high road...set the tone...were the shining example of restraint and democratic fairness the rest of the world sought to emulate?

What happened to "liberty and justice for all"? Because I don't think this Administration embraces that. I think they only want liberty and justice for some...usually those who think like they do.

Now we are laughingstocks and buffoons, even in the eyes of nations who were once our most loyal friends.

And what ever happened to the notion of a God who loves *all* of us -- who is above petty earthly politics -- and who wants us to reach out to each other in a spirit of peace and brotherhood?

Whatever happened to ALL Christians understanding the meaning of "love your enemies"?

Why do so many conservative Christians seem to verge on denying that Jesus even said it in their fervor to embrace the Old Testament God of wrath and vengeance. Oh but let's not go so far as to also embrace polygamy...for some reason even though one could cite chapter and verse from the OT to justify it, polygamy is "not OK" except in some of the fringe elements of the Mormon church.

Y'know, I could almost stomach that if the people who want to pick and choose anti-gay and anti-feminist dogma from Leviticus, etc. could just stand up and say they're picking and choosing rather than insisting that their version of "what matters and what doesn't and how it applies to us here today" is the ONE TRUE version ... and everyone else is going to burn, burn, BURN in Hell for all eternity.

That is not a God I could ever worship.

If God is, as so many devout conservative Christians have often insisted, the definition of Love, of Compassion, of Forgiveness...then there is no room in there for one select group to be The Only Ones Who Got It Right. That's not loving or compassionate.
I probably should have stopped writing long ago, but this is what's been building up inside me for months now.

Pardon my catharsis.

I think one of the things I despise most about Bush is that he has separated me from my best friend and from my own brother with his smug, arrogant "If you ain't with me...well, yer wrong!" attitude.

Bush is not a uniter, he IS a divider.

I weep for this nation and for the world. I cringe at the thought of what Bush's first Supreme Court appointment will be.

And, odd though it may seem, I pray for the health and healing of Justice Rehnquist, for I truly fear his replacement will make him look like a latte-sipping liberal atheist.

I'm not sure where this leaves us. I don't anticipate that my feelings about Bush (that he is a corrupt ideologue -- a fake Christian and a child of privilege who has had everything handed to him without ever really knowing what it means to serve others...or to be in danger or in want...and worst of all he is a lying moron incompetent to run even a baseball team, let alone a superpower nation) will ever change.

I miss having respectful discussions with friends on the other side of the political fence...discussions where we always knew, at the end of the day, that we were equally American, equally patriotic, equally loyal, and equally loved by God. I want to have those discussions again.

I just cannot promise I'll be able to remain silent about what is going on in our government. This is my country too, and I am afraid of what is happening to it.

Even staunch Republicans I know have acknowledged that there needs to be balance -- now we're going to have 8 years in a row of Republican domination of ALL THREE BRANCHES OF GOVERNMENT. There ARE NO CHECKS AND BALANCES anymore, and I fear we are in for a disastrous dispensationalist-driven MAJOR war in the Middle East on top of a depression that will make 1931 look like the Golden Age of American finance.

Half of America doesn't think like Bush. But by God he's going to continue to govern as if it does.

And the level of seething resentment I and others like me feel in response to that is not going to go away unless he makes some MAJOR changes to the way he's been governing.

Let's not forget, however, that Bush is Mr. Steady Leadership so... don't anyone hold their breath on that one.

Dean in 2008. Because HE understands that this land is your land AND my land...and wants us ALL to know we have a home here.


Chi said...

> "I just cannot promise I'll be able to remain silent about what is going on in our government."

Please Don't Stay Silent.

We need to take back religion, morality, and the very definition of decency from these liars, cheats, and hypocrites.

Shane said...

man, u feel really strongly about this. U seem like a completely differnt person when it comes to politics. I bought a bumper sticker in just such of an emergeny. i was gonna mail it to u, cuz i dint put bumper stickers on my car. It says "like a rock, but dumber" and a picture of G.W. next to it. Ur views are also a little extreme, u told me last night u hoped he lost a child in this war, i dont think u should wish that on ur worst enemy! sorry if our views conflict, but niether candidate would of had my vote, they both are scum in my opinion. please queen, rethink a little of ur hatred

Fyrewede said...

Shane, you are recalling my remarks out of context. The *full context* was that I wanted Bush to know the worry that comes from having a child in the line of *feel the pain* of those who have LOST a child in the line of duty.

As a parent I would never wish actual death on anyone's child. But as an American, I will *forever* wish our pResident were capable of that thing called Empathy which is a key element of genuine leadership.

subboy said...

can dean create a public personna that is electable in 2008, or has he been caricaturized too badly by the media? i'm afraid i'm thinking it might be the latter -- but then again, nixon was "rehabilitated." who knows.

right now, i'm leaning heavily towards hillary. i think she would stand up for what we believe in, and i think she would rally so many people who might still believe it's not worth trying.

as for dean, the suggestion in daily kos seems perfect for now: replacing terry mcauliffe as dnc chair. mcauliffe has failed utterly and most go.

Fyrewede said...

Hmmm...Hillary in 2008? It would be hard for me to stomach it. Hillary is just as untrustworthy as Bill, but she lacks his warmth, charm, and charisma. Both Bill and Hillary are career politicians. What we need most desperately now are people who are NOT career politicians. People like Dean and Barack Obama who have lived a life outside of politics, and who understand the very real power of truth and authenticity
when they are put forth with a sense of conviction.

I think Dean's energies would be wasted as Party Chair...on a level with taking Smarty Jones and appointing him Lead Plow Mule. I'd rather Dean
ran for Senator, VP, or President where he can
*really* make a difference.

Oh - and if you think the country is polarized now, just ~try~ running Hillary for something outside of NY State and watch the fur fly. Most Progressives I know don't like or trust her, and the Conservatives I know hate her with the heat of ten thousand suns. Not, IMO, what anyone would call a winning proposition for the 2008 election.

tamargaye said...

This is my first blog too, but think about this one!

tamargaye said...

And you have it right on with your rage. Be angry, cry, let yourself feel it and then lets get started on the next campaign. This time lets make a pact to get all women voting and to make women's real issues matter. We have gone without the things we need for far far too long. No more playing ball, it's time to buy the team!